Ben De Coninck interviews Peter Snauwaert, freelance business developer at innovation firm Oiko (part of Cronos), musician and host of the 'What's on your mind' (PSGrow) podcast. Peter recounts drifting from job to job after studying economics, losing himself in performance and status until his late 30s, and then consciously rebalancing life around creation, intuition and family. He delivers a dense masterclass on selling: never push, qualify deeply, create value, understand emotional drivers behind rational decisions, detach from the outcome, and build trust through consistency. He also discusses ego as a necessary but immature force, the 'wheel of life' framework, and how his podcast of 260+ episodes grew organically from curiosity rather than a personal-branding strategy.
Peter Snauwaert's throughline across both conversations is a persistent argument against living purely from the head. He is blunt about where that leads: "Als je alleen maar uit je hoofd leeft, kan ik je verzekeren, ga je ooit met je kop tegen de muur kwakken" 1. This is not abstract philosophy for him but a pattern he claims to have seen repeatedly, including in the 260 people he has interviewed on his podcast, where the single common thread among successful guests, from investors to marketers, is that they decide on intuition rather than fully with the head 2. His own gut has been reliable enough that he states plainly, "Mijn buikgevoel heeft me nooit in de steek gelaten" 2. He does not present this as mystical; he frames it as trainable, suggesting people practice on small, low-stakes calls like what to eat or drink so the head-gut balance is ready when bigger decisions arrive 1.
On sales, Snauwaert rejects the industry's obsession with technique and closing. "Closen vind ik de grootste zever die bestaat" 2, he says, arguing that 99% of lost deals trace back to poor qualification and pushing people through a funnel too fast rather than any failure to close. His reframe of the seller's role is the clearest single statement in his material: "Jouw job is niet om te verkopen maar om iemand te begeleiden in de aankoop" 2. Underneath this sits a claim about human decision-making generally: "Elke beslissing in B2C en B2B wordt emotioneel genomen en achteraf gerationaliseerd" 2, which means a seller's real work is uncovering both the rational business driver and the private emotional one behind any purchase. He also introduces a memorable typology for the people you deal with in business and life, splitting them into "zuigtabletten en bruistabletten," where zuigtabletten are the people who leave you feeling completely drained after talking to them 2, a distinction that functions as a filter for who is worth investing time in.
A second recurring theme is the relationship between ego, expression, and fulfillment. Snauwaert describes ego as necessary fuel to perform and act, but insists you have to pass through the ego phase, chasing likes, cars, applause, before realizing external validation doesn't produce lasting satisfaction. His own arc is summarized directly: "Op mijn 30e dacht ik: ik ga gelukkig zijn door te krijgen, en op mijn 40e dacht ik: het geluk zit hem in het geven" 2. This lands in a broader statement about what he thinks life is for: "Depressie is het tegenovergestelde van expressie. Life is all about expression. It's about to express, not to impress" 2. The same idea resurfaces in the twentysomethings advice as a paradox he names explicitly: contentment with who you are has to coexist with continued growth, rather than trying to fix an inner emptiness by changing external circumstances like buying a motorcycle or finding a new partner 1. He states the paradox in his own words: "Ik ben nu content en gelukkig met wat dat er is, ik ben perfect zoals dat ik ben en ik kan nog groeien, dat is die paradox" 1.
For people early in their careers, his advice has a clear time-based structure: "Before you're 30 you learn and after you're 30 you earn" 2. Concretely this means choosing jobs and employers for what you can learn rather than for prestige or tenure, and not worrying about how it looks on a resume 2. He pairs this with patience as a virtue in itself: "Je hoeft je aan niemand te bewijzen, ook niet aan jezelf, en je hebt tijd, dus wees geduldig, alles komt op tijd" 1. He is skeptical of experience as commonly counted, observing that "Mensen die 30 jaar ervaring hebben... die doen eigenlijk, ze hebben één jaar iets geleerd en ze doen 30 keer hetzelfde" 1, and his antidote is continual real conversation with new people, which compounds into both knowledge and the network that actually produces opportunity: "Het is je netwerk die voor opportuniteiten gaat zorgen" 1.
On process versus outcome, Snauwaert is consistent across both sources. He tells twentysomethings that flow cannot be forced but should be pursued regularly, and that the point is "dat de journey de destination is, in plaats van dat je een doel haalt" 1. In the sales and entrepreneurship conversation this becomes practical advice for anyone starting something new: "Focussen op progressie en niet focussen op perfectie. Er zijn te veel mensen die willen direct naar 100 procent. Begint gewoon met 80" 2. He applies this to his own podcast, which found its niche, the crossover between personal growth and sales, only after 26 episodes, built with no personal-branding strategy beyond being an extension of himself 2. This same view underlies his skepticism about shortcuts in an AI-saturated environment: automation can handle editing and workflows, but he maintains there is no silver bullet for human connection, then or now 2.
Finally, Snauwaert circles back repeatedly to how people are made to feel as the real currency of relationships and business alike. He closes his sales philosophy with the line, "People will forget what you have said, will forget what you have done, but they will never forget how you made them feel" 2, and this sentiment threads through his comments on startups rushing to sales before validating product-market fit, his insistence on closing open sales threads honestly rather than leaving people hanging, and his broader claim that the so-called soft skills, asking good questions, listening, are often someone's real superpower rather than whatever technical skill they think defines them 12. Taken together, his material reads less like a sales playbook and more like a consistent worldview: trust intuition, optimize for learning before earning, treat business as guided value creation rather than persuasion, and measure a life by expression and contentment rather than accumulation.
Peter Snauwaert advises twentysomethings to stop living purely from their head, trust their gut/intuition, enjoy the process over goals, and build skills and network to avoid a midlife crash.
Belgian sales veteran, podcaster and musician Peter Snauwaert shares hard-won lessons on selling through value creation and trust, balancing head vs. gut, ego, and building a 260-episode podcast without a strategy.