Overview
In this Connexi podcast, Jozefien De Feyter, co-founder of sales consultancy Blinc (and later Traicie), discusses three pivotal moments in her decade of entrepreneurship. She and her life partner Jochen started Blinc around 2009-2010 in the middle of a crisis, triggered by a personal shock, and put the company on the map with a guerrilla mystery-shopping stunt at the car salon. Her second pivotal moment was reclaiming her place as a founder and shareholder after a third partner joined in 2017, culminating in her finally feeling like a real business leader. The third moment was doubling from 5 to 10 employees during the corona crisis in 2020, when trust-based client relationships paid off, and a reversed decision to fire a colleague led to a full reorganization of the company. Throughout, she argues that anyone can sell in a way that matches their personality, and that professional growth comes through personal development.
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The through-line
Everything Jozefien De Feyter says circles back to one conviction: commercial results are downstream of personal development. Blinc's founding premise was that anyone can sell well provided the methods and tools fit their personality rather than a single standard extrovert profile, a position that was unusual when the company started because ten years earlier nobody personalised sales training to the individual salesperson [2]. She states the formula plainly: "Het is echt wel professionele groei door persoonlijke ontwikkeling." [2] What begins as a training methodology extends, in her account, all the way up to the founder's chair, where "the inner world of a founder or leader determines enormously much within an organization" and blocked personal material stops certain cogs of the company from turning at all [2].
The trajectory she describes runs from doing the work on clients' salespeople to doing it on herself, and then wanting to do it on other leaders. Her stated ambition is deeper systemic and energetic work with leaders [2], and at company level the reach is deliberately unbounded: "Onze ambitie is eigenlijk om mensen wereldwijd te raken." [2]
On sales as the carrier of a mission
She refuses to treat sales as a lesser function. "De missie van een bedrijf kan moeilijk in de wereld gezet worden zonder de sales." [2] The same logic explains her own pleasure in the work, which is not closing but unlocking: "Ik laat graag mensen blinken. Daar hou ik echt heel veel van, om mensen iets te laten ontdekken in zichzelf wat ze zelf nog niet wisten dat ze in zich hadden." [2] Selling personalised to the seller's personality is what makes that possible, since the alternative is asking every salesperson to perform a profile that is not theirs [2].
On daring to choose
In year two or three Blinc dropped all other soft-skills training and focused exclusively on sales and commercial skills. She frames the narrowing as a sharpening rather than a loss, because the core belief in professional growth through personal development survived the cut intact while the positioning got much clearer [2]. The willingness to give things up is the point.
On shock points and refusing to repeat yourself
Blinc itself came out of a rupture. A personal shock, Jochen falling in love with a colleague, forced the couple to cut ties with his job and go all in together, and she observes that such shock points have repeatedly been needed in her entrepreneurship to reach the next level [2]. The principle she draws from it is her most quotable line: "Je kan geen ander resultaat verwachten als je dezelfde dingen doet." [2] She applies it literally. After firing a colleague she could not sleep, because the decision was rationally right and felt wrong; rather than defend it, they reversed the firing and reorganised the whole company toward a model sitting between structure and organic, which they call fluctuur [2]. Alongside the appetite for disruption sits a steadying instruction: "Blijf dicht bij jezelf, luister naar je intuïtie." [2] The sleepless night was the intuition doing its work.
On winning clients by taking the risk yourself
With no budget and no clients, Blinc did unsolicited mystery shopping at the autosalon and then cold-called every major car manufacturer offering to present the resulting report, normally worth around €60,000, for free. Everyone said yes, which put a new consultancy in front of large clients [2]. The same instinct returned in the 2020 crisis, when they moved to result-based fees tying part of the fee to agreed sales outcomes; clients read that willingness to carry risk as proof of conviction, and it became a growth lever [2]. The pay-off she points to is relational rather than contractual. During corona, clients came to Blinc unprompted to co-create e-learnings for staff who had nothing to do, which she treats as confirmation that trust-based, non-transactional client relationships hold up when other suppliers are watching budgets freeze [2]. The company doubled from five to ten employees during that year [2].
On claiming her place
When a third shareholder joined the new company on paper, she felt reduced to half of Jochen's share. It took a constellation exercise and literally producing the original founding documents before she claimed her equal place, and only then, for the first time, did she feel like a real business leader [2]. She tells it as an internal problem with an external trigger, consistent with her broader claim that what is unresolved in the founder shows up in the structure of the firm [2].
On leadership as inspiration, not hierarchy
She rejects the hierarchical connotation of the word leider and prefers inspirator or mentor [2]. The practice she describes is perceptual: sensing the organisation with tentacles, and owning what the work triggers in you [2]. She draws the boundary sharply and repeats it as her single distilled lesson: take full ownership of your own behaviour, but not full responsibility for how everyone on the team feels, because that is what makes people dependent [1][2].
Takeaways
- Fit the method to the person: anyone can sell well if the tools match their personality instead of one standard extrovert profile [2].
- "Je kan geen ander resultaat verwachten als je dezelfde dingen doet." Reversing a rationally correct decision that felt wrong led to reorganising the whole company [2].
- Give the expensive thing away to get in the room: unsolicited mystery shopping plus a free report worth roughly €60,000 got a client-less consultancy in front of every major car manufacturer [2].
- Tie part of your fee to the client's sales results; clients read the risk you take as evidence of your conviction [2].
- Own your behaviour, not everyone's feelings, or you build a dependent team [1][2].
- Narrow deliberately: dropping every other soft-skill offer to focus on sales sharpened the positioning without abandoning the underlying belief in "professionele groei door persoonlijke ontwikkeling" [2].
- Founders should expect to have to claim their place explicitly, including on paper, before they feel like a leader [2].
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